
“The human mind plans the way, but the Lord directs the steps”. Proverbs 16:9
Just a few days ago we had some unexpected weather. The forecast called for a clearing of skies following a day that a rather heavy snowfall had been forecast, (one which, by the way we did not receive). The wee morning hours brought a frozen mist, the kind that can’t be seen, but only felt. Around daybreak the snow began to fall. While it was beautiful to look at it, it proved to make for an extremely long and frustrating commute for those trying to get to work; my husband was one of those frustrated commuters.
Paul had a similar experience… “And they went through the region of Phrygia and Galatia, having been forbidden by the Holy Spirit to speak the word in Asia. And when they had come up to Mysia, they attempted to go into Bithynia but the Spirit of Jesus did not allow them” (Acts 16:6-7). Paul travelled from place to place sharing the Good News and, scripture tells us, “Many people believed”. Acts 16:5 tells us that the churches were strengthened in faith, and they increased in numbers daily. I can only imagine the momentum Paul had, but there was a roadblock ahead.
Can you relate to Paul? Think about it, life is going along just fine, your expectations are being met. There are no bumps in the road and then, BAM! Roadblock. What are you going to do? I met a Christian woman years back who experienced this in her own life and I learned some valuable lessons from her that I’d like to share with you.
First. Grieve the loss. Take time to let go of your perception of how you thought your life would
be. Isaiah 43:18-19 says “Forget the former things: do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing!”
Second. Trade any thoughts of hopelessness for thoughts of hopefulness. God always has a will and way, and His plans are always for our good and His glory.
Finally. Surround yourself with good, godly friends. I don’t mean a lot of them, just a special few who will “surround” you with love, truth and wisdom. You know, the type of friends who feel like a warm sweater on a cold day. These are the friends who will be waiting for you at your next roadblock, directing you in a new direction, pointing you to your Heavenly Father.
Do you wonder why God placed the roadblock in Paul’s path? After all, Paul was on mission for God. Further reading of the scripture tells us what happened as a result of Paul’s roadblock…
- He was called to preach in Macedonia
- Lydia and her household were converted
- Paul and Silas received a miracle when their prison chains were loosed
- The Philippian jailer and his household were saved
Do you wonder why God puts roadblocks in your life? Look around. See what God is doing and join Him. Thank God for going before you, making a way with a promise to never leave us at a dead end! Need some directions? Here you go! “Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you. Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways”. (Proverbs 4:25-26)
About my husband? He finally made it to work. The 18-mile trek from Iron Station to Cornelius took two hours and forty-five minutes, two hours longer than his normal travel time. With each direction he tried he found the road was closed and he had to turn around and try another way.
So, when you hit those roadblocks, which you will, keep your chin up and you, like Paul, will eventually get to where God intends you to be. Paul writes, “Rejoice always, pray continually, and give thanks in all circumstances. (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Words to travel by.

